The Blue House of Crazy

Adventures of an American Expat Family

January 15, 2013

Good times

So I know I said I would be posting about our trip to Barcelona, but with 4 kids, life happens.  The kids had three snow day last week.  So our time was spent playing in the snow and snuggling on the couch watching movies with hot chocolate.  Plus throw in a few crafts.  Milly still hasn't improved on her sleep.  I'm guessing the 4 month regression started at 3 months?  She is ahead on her milestones.   So I've been one tired mommy.

We also rearranged the girls room.  Bunked the beds again and made Jocy an office and reading nook.  It is working well but of course we had to dejunk the girls room and that lead to me dejunking the storage room.  Searching for the parts for the bed was the main cause.  I stashed them in the dumbest place but at least it was in the girls storage bins.  Anyways, it looks nice and they seem happy, so it would worth a weekend of work!

This week, Elly is home sick.  She has had a high fever the past two days.  Elly just doesn't get sick and this is the second time this school year.  Sigh, I was hoping she would keep her crazy immune system.  But I have enjoyed getting some alone time with her.  She really doesn't get enough.   I've put everything off that I want to get done until she is napping.  Which as tired as I am, I should be napping with her.  I tried it yesterday but I swear Milly has a radar that as soon as I think about sleep.... CRY!

I did learn something new about Milly recently.  She loves to be sung to before she sleeps.  I started with the tradition nursery rhymes.  They were OK.  I forgot how disturbing some of them are.  I will not be singing Clementine anytime soon.  I got a little bored, threw in some Christmas songs (yes I know its over but I still love them) and then one night out of desperation and exhaustion.... Bye Bye Birdie came out of my mouth.  She instantly relaxed and dozed off.  Hmm... what other musicals work. I am going to have to brush up on my repertoire.

The next afternoon we were rocking listening to my Glee playlist and the next thing I knew, she was out like a light!  Hmm... was this just a fluke?  Turns out nope.  Anytime she gets over tired, listening to my Glee playlist calms her right down.  Hmm...wonder if I played it all night would she sleep thru the night??

Now we have finally got our nightly routine down.  I've even turned "I love you Conrad" into "I love you Milly" to end our singing for the evening.  So far, bedtime is going well.  But the downside, she hates when Joel puts her to bed.  She won't stand for it.  LOL.  Now to just work on that sleeping thru the night thing. Yawn.

January 8, 2013

Snow Day! With a side of school slumber party

Yesterday was supposed to be the first day back to school for the New Year. Well Mother Nature had another plan. When we came upstairs for breakfast around 7:30am, Jocy yelled, "Mom, it's really snowing!" I look out to see big beautiful snow flakes. And the ground is already covered with snow. I get a tight feeling in my chest of panic and call Joel. I have a feel I should keep the kids home. Of course, he says its up to me because it's not snowing in Golcuk. At first I say, they will go. They NEED to go. Mommy needs a break! LOL. So I hang up with Joel. 15 minutes later, the panic is back and I call Joel back and say screw it, they are staying home! I call our driver to have him call the bus driver to inform him not to make the stop. I calmly settle in for a fun day with the kids.

 Now, I'm sure you are wondering why these crazy panic attacks over snow. The first snow of Istanbul is CRAZY. The weather never predicts it correctly, so the city is never prepared. Not that they have snowplows or salt trucks anyways. This is the Med. It doesn't snow often here. Well, since we arrived, it has a LOT!

 Last year during the first snow, Elly went to school alone. And it started snowing around noon. By the time school let out, the Forest road was closed. UGH. Unfortunately, BISI is located in a town at a high elevation, so they get more snow and fast. She finally made it home around 6pm. It was a miserable 3 hours. I thought that was horrible!!

 Until this year. It was the Thursday morning before Christmas break. The kids were so excited because it was free dress day and the Winter Bazaar. They all had their spending money for games and to do a little Christmas shopping. I was planning on going to take Nate around and make sure all three got a picture with Santa. None of them did last year. :( While we were waiting for the bus, it started spitting a very light snow. The kids were running around trying to catch snowflakes on their tongues.

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The weather wasn't calling for snow that day. Just rain. But by 10am, it was definitely not a small snow shower. At quarter til 11am, I got a text from school saying because of the weather, they were moving the Winter Bazaar to 11am (was at 1pm) and releasing school at 2pm. There was already a bit of snow on the ground then.

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And it just keep coming down. I had decided against going because it would pretty much be over by the time I made it. By noon, I was getting a bit worried. I started seeing pics on FB about how much snow was in Zek the morning and how many had stayed home from school.

 Finally 2pm came. They were on their way home! At 3pm, got a text from school saying they were stuck in traffic. At that point, I had our driver call the bus driver. Turns out they hadn't even left Zek. They were stuck behind 6 car pile up. But once that was cleared, 20 minutes. But 5pm, I was a freaking wreck! I hated that Jocy didn't have her phone. Totally my fault for not getting it fixed yet. Finally, before 6 our driver heard from the bus driver that they couldn't get out of Zek because all roads out where closed and they were going back to school. WHAT? My 3 year old is on the bus!! Jocy and Elly I wasn't really worried about. They would be cool about it. But I had no idea how Nate would react. I was hoping his buddy Nacho was on the bus so he would be distracted.

 Then I have to find out via Facebook they were dropped at school and a possible plan of Amanda (head of Primary) working out something. So I called a friend that lives in Zek. Her two kids are in Elly and Jocy's classes. They were in the process of trying to get their car unstuck. She said it was really bad. If it was bad on my street, I'm sure it was really bad there. As I was talking to her, they got unstuck. She was going to make some calls and find out where they were. And head up to school to see what was going on. They offered to get the kids.

 About 15 minutes later, I get a call from Leslie. My kids are gone from the school, just older ones left. They were taken to Amanda's house for the night. But she offered to go get them. She gave me Amanda's number and I called right away. Her house sounded like chaos but my kiddos were there. I talked to Jocy and offered to have Leslie come get them. But she was having a ton of fun. And Nate was doing fine and Nacho was there. Amanda said that a bus would bring them home the next morning if the roads were clear. So free babysitting from the head of primary!

 But the thing that PISSED me off the most…. Joel got a phone call at 8pm to tell him that Nate was at Amanda's. And when he asked if his other two were there, she had no idea. I had to track my kids down and wasn't notified until 6 hours after they left school that they wouldn't be coming home tonight? Total BS. Did I mention we pay them almost $60,000 a year for tuition??? I expect better than a text saying they are stuck in traffic.

 Amanda did step up and take care of it. From what Jocy told me when they got home the next day, that after a few kids got picked up, there were about 22 kids. They got dinner and some sleep. Then had breakfast and were home by 11am. But what the bus driver didn't tell us, was that while waiting on the accident, he got stuck himself. For 4 hours! They sat on the bus until a bunch of guys, a back hoe and a tow hook finally got them out. That is when they headed back to school. The only people there were the security guards. But our head bus guy, Amanda, and some other parents stepped up and got the kids from the school to Amanda's. The buses couldn't get around, so parents with 4x4 where shuttling the kids. Jocy said they had to walk up and down the hill because cars couldn't get in and out of Amanda's complex.

 So now you understand my freak out.  Yesterday, school closed at 11:30am (I was right!  And my hubby admitted it!) . And is closed again today. Which is good because it is really coming down now. It's just that first snow of the year gets Istanbul every time.

January 3, 2013

New Year

I can't believe it is already 2013! I just seems like yesterday we were waiting for the anticipated 2000! Of course, its been another busy year for us. Especially with Milly's arrival.

 The holiday season FLEW by. Last I remember it was Thanksgiving! Nate had his first Christmas Program. That boy is just so darn cute! I figured he would just get up on stage and stand there. That is what the preschoolers did last year. But nope. Nate and his classmates did a wonderful job. As in tradition, my kid stood behind someone else and I could barely see him. But I got a bit of video and some pics. DSC02024 DSC02030

We woke up to a pool in our powder room. Turns out a elbow came unsealed and had been leaking water for who knows how long.

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Jocy's class was asked to performing in the school wide Christmas program. I took the other three to see it. Almost all of the programs I have been to at school were under 30 minutes, so I thought I could handle it. UM NO! It was flipping 2 hours!! And of course Milly needed to eat. We didn't get home til about 6:30pm. Needless to say, we had Burger King delivered that night. No pics but I will post a video soon.

 Then all the socially occasions kept Joel and I busy every weekend. First we had the Ford Otosan Management End of Year party. Not as fancy as last year and not as fun. The following weekend was the Department party. Now that was a good time and I had a little too much fun. I was completely SHOCKED when the shot trays were passed. Guess that no drinking rule in the Islamic religion is on the way out like Catholics and birth control. I barely could get out of bed the next day.

 The next weekend was a real Christmas party. Well a British one but still! We got to spend a wonderful evening with friends and did Secret Santa. Funny enough, Joel and I both got gifts from our good friends Leslie and Volkan and they got one of ours! I have to say that the BEST thing about having a driver is not having to worry about driving home. There is a serious NO tolerance against drunk drivers here.

 Elly missed her Christmas program because she got sick. First time EVER that Elly was home more than a day. She was so upset. She probably wasn't ready but went to school for the Winter Bazaar. That in itself is a totally different blog post.

 We left for Barcelona on the 22nd and had a wonderful time. Over the next week, I will post about it. Barcelona is definitely a must visit city! I could really have used another week.

 Ahh… nap time is over and so is this post! Happy New Year!